“Are we still together?” Mr. Tariq asked his girlfriend, who lives outside the valley. “I thought you might have married someone else.”

His girlfriend broke down sobbing on the phone.”

It isn’t just love that is interrupted by the lack of phone service but the ability to contact emergency services, communication with family over sicknesses & deaths, in all areas of social life, & of course commerce.

https://www.nytimes.com/2019/10/14/business/kashmir-cellphone-service-restored.html?fbclid=IwAR1qLd45EFJ0BVbQJ-8Rsm6Ii6zsP1PgzqK210WfebmS6filqFKNedh-xOo