Not to be a pain in the ass, but I am extremely censorious about the use of the word “retard” or any of its derivatives. The human rights movement of those with learning disabilities actively campaigns against the term ‘retarded’ because it has become an insulting epithet that demeans them & treats them as slugs rather than complete human beings, perfect just as they are. Please don’t use it, in any of its forms, on my wall. Those with learning disabilities suffer immensely from its use. My younger beloved brother Paul committed suicide from humiliation. So I take its use very personally.